Part of the reason I have not gone yet is because I have nobody to go with. I have let my personal life suffer for the last ten years just as my wife has. We were too caught up in raising our kids that we forgot to take care of our individual personal lives.
We didnt realize how important the personal space and growth were to the health of our relationship. We thought that we got enough space apart because of my job but we sacrificed our personal identity and personal authenticity. I believe that is one of the root causes of our marital crisis.
