Bright,

I think the WASes have a hard time communicating with us at a personal level because they don't want to feel feelings for us. Hence the seemingly coldness they display toward us. My DXW did not talk to me for years and years other than just a friendly HBD texts once a year to wish me a Happy Birthday. Now, we are texting a bit more each month and have had two phone calls three months apart recently. As you probably can see from my thread that my DXW moves at a g-l-a-c-i-a-l pace... crazy

Sorry that I have not read up on your sitch. What is the current status? Is H still living in another state? Is the joint business you do on a part-time basis? Is there any way you can increase your hours to generate income for yourself?
Just wondering as I am not as clued in the sitch as you are.