Hi crazy, haven't caught all the way up yet with the thread but its an interesting read.
So I have to ask, what would be your 180 when it comes to gardening or being logical in your thinking? From what I gathered so far from the DB and DR books, its about doing the opposite of what you normally do? Im just trying to understand your difference in boundries and "doing something different" as the books say.
I'm certainly not gonna try to answer for your husband, but could it be he wants to garden so you have a connection together? Could this be him "reaching"?
I certainly understand thinking logical, im that way myself, but so far this has been anything but logical. In response to your "non-lawyer" question, how about, "Why don't we give you a small area to work yourself, and if you need help I'll answer any questions you have, or help anyway I can".
