I went three years ago with my sister and it was amazing. I had always wanted to do it one time and, yes, I was scared to death on that little plane on the way up, but once I MADE myself jump, it was like floating. So cool and a great experience and what an adrenaline rush. I definitely recommend at least trying it once if you have ever had the "urge" or wanted to try it!
Me: 27 H: 27 Together: 11, M: 3 S 2 BD: 06/24/13 Living together H: EA - unknown current status Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR) Back and forth we go...
He actually called again last night and said he misses us and was lonely. No therapy appointment yet. Believing none of what I hear until I see that appointment made...fingers crossed he really does it.
This is a crucial time. Just smile when you see him. My coach gave me great advise last night. He said women don't know the power of their laughter. So today when I saw H I laughed about something he did. Genuine laughter. Threw him off.
M12 Kids 2 ILYBINILWY 08/05 Reconciled 05/06 S07/12 Moved back 03/13 Separated Again 06/24/13 Back Again (his choice) 02/14 Leaving again 03/23/14 DIVORCED 02/15
Yes, mine said the same thing about smiling! Got to remember that.
I think I've been doing a pretty good job with it...H actually seems like the sad one when we're together. He's had so much on his mind for months...obviously. I'm glad he's not taking the decision to break apart his family lightly...I just wish he'd get it out of his head for good and put a smile on his face too!!
smiling and laughing are contagious. He is in a place right now that doesn't make him want to smile much. But I think if we smile more it changes the mood.
M12 Kids 2 ILYBINILWY 08/05 Reconciled 05/06 S07/12 Moved back 03/13 Separated Again 06/24/13 Back Again (his choice) 02/14 Leaving again 03/23/14 DIVORCED 02/15
I feel your pain. It's hard dealing with the kids daily on top of all the emotions we are going through. And every time we see our H's they look happy. I wish I had words of wisdom to give you. It's a roller coaster. Try to do something for you today. Something to relax you even if its a bath.
I miss my H too. Although I see him daily because we work together it takes everything out of me not to touch him or hug him. Stay strong.
M12 Kids 2 ILYBINILWY 08/05 Reconciled 05/06 S07/12 Moved back 03/13 Separated Again 06/24/13 Back Again (his choice) 02/14 Leaving again 03/23/14 DIVORCED 02/15
We saw each other briefly in a parking lot to exchange the kids. No connection at all. No hug, kiss, nothing. Seemed like he couldn't get away fast enough. Neither could I. It was hard to hold back the tears. He just grabbed the kids and ran. I cried all the way home then changed into my pajamas and cried all night.
Tomorrow is his birthday.
No therapy appointment either. Believe nothing I hear, I guess I'm learning.
