New and need encouragement

[chasingpavements]

Hi there, such a hard situation having to deal with all of this uncertainty. I feel your pain, as my H and I are also on a temporary separation. It is hard to balance. You want to try so hard to be friendly and nice, but not too close, etc. It's all so contradictory! Hang in there and work on doing nice things for yourself! It sounds like you have a great, well-rounded child, you have obviously raised him well.

Hopefully you can find someone that you can talk to about your relationship that is pro-marriage, as it is not productive for you to hear the negative comments. And of course, you always have us on the forum!