Advina! This makes a lot of sense. Thank you, I will follow your advice. I thought for a long time that I would be able to change her mind, I have philosophical differences n the way I thought about this sitch, and they never matched my w's. I realize I can't win this battle and I will surrender. I wish I could have just given her the D at the beginning, I would probably gotten more respect if I had. Hindsight!
This is the hardest most painful event of my life


Me:46 W:40
M:10 T:17
D:9 S:6
BD:12/11
ILYBINILWY:8/12
Served 2/13
I moved out 2/13
I moved back 6/13
W moved out 9/13