Like OW, however, she has a photo of her and her bf as her profile pic. Both have changed recently from a photo of themselves, alone, to one showing them with the LOTLs. Of course, OW and, let's call her 'Tarlene', are 'friends' with each other too.
I also have a question to throw out.
Since the kids' great grandfather's funeral - which none of us attended due to XHs carry on - we have not heard from MIL (her father was the deceased).
It's been about a month. She has been caring for the kids' grandfather at home as he recovered from stomach cancer surgery. Kids have not seen him since his operation.
I suspect XH told them a doozy of a story about why we didn't go to the funeral.
Anyway, yesterday she rang asking if she could come get the kids and take them to her place to visit.
She was civil, but there were long pauses that indicated awkwardness.
Should I raise the obvious?
I really only have to say: I suspect XH lied to you about what happened in relation to the funeral. And it was his fault that the kids didn't attend.
This seems so rude and self-serving. And unlikely to be believed.
Is it best to let it go, or to address it head on?
