In regards to your Mom. If she is baiting you passively aggressively or otherwise state your stance on it and stick to it.
When she's Uh huh. Ignore it. Don't ask her what should be done because she isn't going say anything you want to hear.
By saying: :Well, what else are we going to do??" You are asking her for her opinion on this issue. You don't want it so don't ask for it.
My Mom was like this a while ago. You need to sort it or stay away from it.
Something like "Mom the next time you put down W I will no longer discuss that part of my life with you."
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14