I am not so sure if I am doing the right thing. I have been trying to follow DBing, but what if it's wrong? What if all I am doing is completely wrong, and I should be sharing my feelings with her more? <===== THAT is what I keep focusing on. In reality, I think DBing is the proper way to handle this, but I don't know for certain. It's just frusturating.
I will try to keep my focus on daughters issues, stay upbeat and avoid conflict at all costs. I think I may bridge into collecting her belongings, but I feel that might be pressure....thoughts?