Hi K smile
Men don't think about their sons when they are with the OW. It's just a fantasy, it won't last! Just let it ride for now, eventually they will want to see them more and more. I know that's what it's been like with my H, he wants to spend more time with his son now, which is good smile
I'm glad you're taking on board what I've said about your MIL smile I thought you might've said but she's not like that. I didn't think my MIL was like that either! It's good that she's still looking after your boys and they get a chance to spend with other family members.
Miz, that was some really lovely words you said to K, especially the peace waves smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!