Heard from my from my wife today via another short email after no contact for 2 weeks on both our parts. I had emailed a short one to her yesterday just letting her know i had forwarded her mail to her and said hope you are well. So today she responded with a thank you and that she put in for her mail to be forwarded by the post office. That she was sending me a small box of pictures she came across. Apparently while we were still together she was sending some of her personal stuff off to her sons home without me knowing about it. these must be pics of me etc that she doesnt want. So she appears to be in her new condo and looks like divorce after her establishing 3 months residency there in Illinois which is the earliest she could file. She still hasnt used the D word yet probably cause she wont say much of anything to me. With no opening and being 900 miles apart there isnt much I can do to reverse this whole thing....She has made sure we have no real ties anymore either and a D wont be difficult since what little assets we had are already done....Now I can do nothing but wait for D papers...this is not fun at all....


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