mwd book about change your life & everyone in it is worth a look - at any time in life. I liked some tings she said alot- like don't go acting on your feelins in a flash - they do change.
and also- wht the heck was it now? oh yeah - i think in her divorce buster book - linda you may be thinking that (and i think it too) she says something like in her long experience - 35 yrs or something - she reckons about 75% of mlc people do not end the marriage and manage to return to normalcy.
idk exact wording- and could be wrong- but i thought i read it and I was impressed to think there was a bettr than 50-50 chance.