"But WTF is wrong with doing MLC research if she is going through one? tell me that. Why are all the resources here on this board to learn and understand it. Why can't I do my work and understand it."
I think the biggest issue that you don't understand from everyone here is that you can read all about everything, but bottom line is that it won't change your W's attitude. AND you spent so much time in the beginning of your sitch explaining how your W has a disorder, behavioral problems, etc. that if you throw MLC into the mix, it's just going to confuse you. I've studied MLC for a very long time and you know what? It doesn't matter what I know because my W would never apply what I learned and I still wouldn't be able to control her own actions.
Go and read the Conway stuff if you need to scratch that itch. Everyone is just trying to save you time.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
