OK I will keep that in mind when I speak to MIL I usually don't talk to her unless in have too. She watches the boys when in have work at night. I don't know what H schedule is cause he is hardly ever home now so I have to have MIL help me watch the boys cause he is either at work or with OW. Its pretty sad when all of his free time is spent on OW instead of his own sons. I feel so bad for them cause H is never around for them if he is home he spends little to ko time with them due to OW constantly texting H every second of the day. Or calling him every second of the day taking up all his time so he is not spending time with our sons. I so wish he would just wake up and see what he is doing our family. Yes I know it will be a looooong time before he realize what he is doing. Or it may never happen. I know my boys are not happy about this situation so I tell them that daddy has a lot of things on his mind and one day he will be at peace with himself and hopefully he will come back to our family.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013