Thanks for the encouragement, it meant alot today especially.
I didn't think i would ever say this and mean it, but i am ready for this D to be final. I have spent the past 6 months going through what all of us have gone through and we all know how it feels emotionally and even physically.
I think when the dust settles and i can get to a point where i am more comfortable, i am going to hop in my vehicle and drive to the grand canyon (special place for me) since being from the midwest, i have a love for the desert southwest for whatever reason. I have spent quite a few vacations there throughout my life and doing this by myself would be something i wouldn't have tried alone unless something life changing happened.
Maybe it's time i get out of my comfort zone a bit. Maybe we should all get together there and drink a couple beers and toast the fact that our lives aren't over yet!!
Me: 41 W: 36 M:9 yrs Together: 12 yrs Kids S7 S4 BD: 01/13 W filed 5/13 D final 8/13