Left Behind Husband on the Left Coast II

[shouldistillhope]

LC,

I have also read all those studies and seen the statistics, but i take them with a grain of salt.

I have read that part of the reason that couples don't remarry after divorce is generally because the LBS has moved on and didn't want to wait for WAS to come out of the fog. Either way your chose, remember, it is YOUR choice and no one else can tell you when to give up hope.

You posted on my thread asking if i thought i might be co-dependant, and yes, i think that may be the case with us. I am not happy being alone, and i understand if you also feel that same way, but part of this whole process is getting to that point where we can be happy on our own.

That is what will make us attractive to a new potential relationship whether it is with our wives or someone new. I know it's easy to say while typing it, but in reality it is a very hard thing to do. I think we have the coconuts to do it though, don't you?