Magic, As you grow and learn to detach more, you'll be able to recognize his LLs. The next time he offers you a cookie, take it and be sure to thank him. I think, in his own way, he was trying to be nice and make things just a bit more relaxing because he may have sensed some tension...but it was a very nice gesture on his part.
I'm glad you took time out and went to a movie. You have to do this every so often to keep up your pma.
BTW, it's time for a new thread. Your threads fill up quickly! You've got a lot of friends here cheering you on.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.