Originally Posted By: T1000
Do I reply to the email? I want to just to set some things straight.


Sorry you're going through this, I'm sure this has got to be really difficult! Just step back and take a deep breath! I would be inclined to send a brief response just as acknowledgement that you received it, otherwise she'll get angry at your silence. Just something like "I received your message, I'm not in complete agreement but I'm sure we can work things out through our solicitors." This is just the first volley. Just because she asks for the moon doesn't mean she'll get it. No one is ever made whole through divorce, that's just the nature of it.

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I'm guessing I need to contact a solicitor now?


Yeah, it sounds like it. You want to negotiate with the assistance of a professional, someone that's not emotionally invested.

Good luck!


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57