Kelela, just a word of warning about your mum in law, be careful what you say to her. Don't talk about your H and you in front of her. She is his mum, however much you got on with her before. Talk instead about what you and the boys have been doing, where have you been, etc. Make your life sound as interesting as possible, the sort of life that will make your ex feel like he wants a part in it. Any information you do tell her, she's bound to pass it on to her son. I speak from experience when I say this. My mum in law was more like a mum to me until we split and then she didn't want to talk to me about any of our relationship problems. Since my H said he wanted to divorce, I hardy talk to her. I know that she'll pass anything onto my H, so I try to be as upbeat as I can. I don't ring her anymore, she will ring me occasionally just to catch up. I won't stop my son from seeing her though. I hope you can find some more things to do in the nearest town. Sometimes they have social events on at your local church, which you don't have to go to church to attend. No-one will force you to go to church either, they need all the support they can get for fundraising events, etc. Keep us updated
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
