Also, I like your goal about having your husband show affection towards you, planning dates, etc. I would love for my H to do those things, too! He used to do those things a lot (years ago), but I really really love that kind of attention from H. Hopefully, it's not just wishful thinking on my part.

Me: 27 H: 27
Together: 11, M: 3
S 2
BD: 06/24/13
Living together
H: EA - unknown current status
Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR)
Back and forth we go...