Emotional Connection and Attraction

[BC39]

Thanks Accuray, I really appreciate your perspective. I'd be very grateful if you read more of my sitch history if you ever get the time (or I could try to summarize for you)

We've been piecing for a year. The affection and sex has been a work in progress but it has been there.

Her affections toward me have been pulled back in the last month.

I'm not entirely sure why.

I understand the reasons why I'm being told to not talk to W about it, to be patient, just keep my PMA and affections toward her without getting nothing in return....I understand....

BUT...one of the things we're supposed to be working on is NOT sweeping things under the rug. Is that not what I'm doing by not talking to her about it?

I swing from having days of clarity of what I should be doing to days of having no clue if I'm doing things properly.

There's times when I don't think I've explained my sitch properly. All the daily little details and past history that would affect the valuable feedback I get here. I get very frustrated with myself trying to explain.