I understand that you feel done and you want a D. I feel that we have not given each other enough time and space to see if our feelings could change. I love you and I don't want a D. I'm asking you to give us 6 months of a proper separation, I will move out and get my own space. If after the next six months your feelings haven't changed, then I will accept a D.
Now you tell me why this isn't a good ides.
You are also saying here that you think she is "wrong" for her feelings. She clearly feels that she has given this time. She asked for space, you didn't give it. Show her you have changed by giving her what she wants.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
