The best thing you can do right now is continue working to change those things you know you need to change.

Become the man you want to be.

Let your W figure out what she wants. Your changes will become evident in your actions. It's easy to say you will change, the work and reward, is actually in doing it.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss