WH/GM - My kindred sisters. Isn't it sad we are all in this boat.

You two are sooo much support for me. Just wanted to know that your post of your feelings and dealings with your MLC'ers is what I am dealing with or preparing for.

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He is totally out of his mind. He can't dictate what he will pay to me just so he can live comfortably with his OW.
This is where I am too!!!

My H thinks because his financial needs are not being met that he can stop ALL financial obligations to me, our household and for the children. I waited a month for him to provide the agreed upon moneys he was supposed to give me. After that I went and filed for it. I think my H will be surprised to see what he will have to provide to me. Me on the other hand, will take whatever I am awarded I have no demands or entitlement theories. The award is what it is, and I will not fight for any more or less than what is awarded. So, I say to h3ll with what H thinks...just let the judge decide.

GM-I too tried to do this without "medicinal help". After me not being able to get my appetite back, weight up, and still being to focused and stressed every time something negative happened I succumbed (just within the past couple of weeks). I figure, it won't be like this forever, and it is important to me and my children that I get through this emotionally and mentally well NOW. Do what you feel is necessary. You can always change your mind about the meds afterwards.


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life