I know it is still hard and some of the emotions that you thought were in the past can be brought up again after all this..but you now have more tools to deal with it...just a thought about the OM, I am sure he is a nice guy but you are right that it will be different when it is finally over with you and W and that might be a uncomfortable for him..just human nature, there won't be the mystery and all....but that is not your concern now and that is wasted time and thoughts...when I get down about my sitch I make the most of the time I have with my kids and love them as much as I can; my W is jealous of the bond I have developed with them. Take it eaaasy these next couple of weeks.......and be good to yourself...
