That's part of my issue with H refinancing. I am sure he did not disclose actual numbers to the lender when he asked about refinancing, since the papers he gave us are over 6 months old and I wonder if he disclosed all his debt?

H expects me to agree to the child support numbers he gave to the lender so he can refinance. He is totally out of his mind. He can't dictate what he will pay to me just so he can live comfortably with his OW. I don't care if he is in debt to his eyeballs. That is not my problem.

This does stink. There's a special place in He!! for people like them.
WH


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"