Yes, there is a formula, but he's trying to find ways to reduce the number. It's just beyond irritating. And then he wonders why I don't want to communicate with him.

I badly want to have his wages garnished. I'm sure he didn't disclose that he has to pay support when he bought his new car or applied for a home loan. I can't do it yet though. I need to remain calm and do everything I can to facilitate a good settlement. I can lash out later if I still feel the need.

I'm so glad that I can come here and vent. Doesn't this just stink, WH? We'll get through this together.