Do I reply to the email? I want to just to set some things straight.

I'm guessing I need to contact a solicitor now?

From what I understand it costs the petitioner somewhere between £500 and £1200 and the respondent about £350-£400. No idea how she is going to fund this.

In regards to the kids her having them every two-three weeks could work for me.
No mention of any of the driving by her.
She says she had no support looking after the kids. My mother had them a full day a week. S3 had nursery 2-3 times a week. I worked and we shared looking after them when I was at home.

Saying that what I am paying is no where near enough really boils my blood.
She nows wants a percentage of the house (wait for it..!!!) before (my) debts are paid off!!
Funny how the house is partly hers but the debt isn't!

She gave up a job in her previous profession when she moved in with me because she didn't like it. I carried us both financially while she trained in her 2nd profession.

She seems to have already back tracked on going through the proper channels for money as she is asking for what is fair. Maybe she looked into what she was going to get via CSA and she didn't think it was enough.
I'm tempted to just put it through the CSA myself otherwise she could be pulling this stuff for the rest of our lives.

I am absolutely itching to respond but I will wait until further advice.


M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

The World is still My Oyster!