Several people on here have also mentioned that they cannot believe their spouse could "change" from a loving person to such a hateful one, and it makes them question on how they could continue to love someone who says/does such mean and hurtful things. These thoughts have also crossed my mind regarding my H, who has said some awful things to me. I have learned that WAS are also scared and confused in most cases, even if they don't show it. Keep on trying to follow Sandi's 37 rules and work on your 180s and GALs, so regardless of how your sitch goes, you will end up a happier and better person, for both yourself and your Ds. Best of luck!
Me: 27 H: 27 Together: 11, M: 3 S 2 BD: 06/24/13 Living together H: EA - unknown current status Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR) Back and forth we go...
