Just letting you know that I will be meeting with a solicitor on Monday to file a divorce petition. I will be saying that the marriage broke down through unreasonable behaviour on your part. Reasons being feeling emotionally and physically neglected. Rowing constantly because of issues with your family. You chose your family and parents over me which made me feel like and outsider. No support in bringing up the kids and having to move back to Blackpool. Your job is in Cumbria and you will not move here nor will I move back.
We need to decide how we are going to look after the kids at weekends. At the minute you were having them every weekend but going forward i don't think that is going to work. We can split the weekends, two/three weekends at yours and then one at mine? We divide the Bank Holidays between us. Obviously as we go through this process there is going to be much more detailed stuff regarding the kids so you need to start thinking about what you want.
With regards to money I am wanting to be civil but I need to think about how am I to support the kids. You need to come up with a figure that you think is reasonable to pay me each month....because what you pay me is no where near enough and you know that. What percentage you are giving to me when the house sells....personally the money that is made should be split before your debt is cleared!| And this is what I will be pushing for. I had a good job when I met you and worked and training while having both kids. I do not see why I should walk away with nothing for what I have put into this marriage over the last 5 years.
So have a think but the petition will be filed next week.
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M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
