In fact, you don't know she is emotionally unstable. Has SHE seen the dr. or are you just diagnosing her yourself and then telling a dr. what your W is?
You say you may push for more time with your son on the grounds that your W is emotionally unstable. Sorry I'm not the @$$ here sir. Oh and I believe I'm not the only one who has labeled you such.
"Keep being useless."
In fact, everybody has told you what to do. You just refused to listen. Either way, I was able to get my M in order. How close have you gotten? I listened and acted as the board recommended. As DB says, if you don't find yourself getting any closer to your spouse, maybe you should try something different. In your case, that would be gaining some humility and listening.
Thank you. ; )
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.