Hi, I am thinking since you are asking, that you didnt feel great about the text you sent.
Though it was understandable that you were getting annoyed, that kind of text doesnt serve you well.
Not because of how she might react, but, because it sounds like that is no longer the way you want to act.
And while I dont advocate kissing anyone's a@@, I do advocate us being the person we aspire to be.
So, you let her get to you. That was probably what she wanted.
I would have probably texted, I understand that you want me to sign the papers, and I will sign them when I can. That is the best I can tell you right now. Or something along those lines.
Again, not to placate her. But because that is who you want to be now, right?
Sometimes it is good to count to 50, or get up and walk or post here or sing a song before responding.
And you said that you are both stubborn and do not apologize.
Some more stuff you might want to work on for you.
I know this is so not what you want and it is very hard for you and I am sorry.
But if you can try to get a handle on your emotions and begin to move forward, it will help you on your journey.
