My W was real big on breakup songs for a while and would sometimes walk in the room and hit "play" to one right next to me! Listens to modern pop sometimes... Prior to crises she seldom listened to any music at all. Hasn't made any moves out or towards D yet, and no signs of an A.
She was really getting into singing along to "I kissed a girl" a couple weeks ago. Maybe she has a girl friend now!!!
Seems silly to worry about just because of a song.
Just cause W listens to cheatin' songs doesn't mean she's cheatin'. You're just assuming the worst here... you really don't know.
If any kind of an A is truly an absolute deal breaker for you, and you have real reason to believe there's something goin' on, then get to snoopin'. Don't get caught though, whatever you do. That'll mess up everything.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
