The refinance of the house is done. I feel pretty calm about it, I must have been anxious about getting it done as afterwards I felt a release of tension. Lets see if I can sleep better tonight. I was up 2 hours early this morning, my brain would not turn off.

I scheduled my W to sign her part about 20min before me as I thought it best for me. I showed up just as she was finishing and she walked out of the bank without any acknowledgement of my existence. Thats okay... for now thats how I want it, contact me only about our daughter.

You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.