I don't think my wife is in a MLC, maybe. But for sure she is a WAW. So im not sure if the rules are the same as how to go about all of this. I read the WAS thread but it only gets one or two updates a week, so hard to get/see advice.

Maybe you can be both, I dunno. I know for sure infidelity is a deal breaker for me, I can forgive, but once that trust is broken I really don't see how you get it back.