One month down, zero casualties

[RosaLinda]

I'm glad that your H's parents are happy that he's back home. And that you're being so supportive of him in dealing with his dad's visit. You are a gem and I think he is starting to appreciate that. Even if he DOES have all these fantasy OW. And feels compelled to lie to them about why he's still at home. 

"He's not willing to give this side up yet either. Almost like he is wanting me to make the decision for him. And so he'll stay stagnant as far as that goes."

I felt like that with my H this spring too, Raine and T^2, during his DB#2 speech. Almost as if he was trying to be as offensive as he could to force my hand so that I would kick him out, and make the decision for him. 

Unfortunately for him, I just told him that if he and RT were so much in love with each other, she should come here to live with him as an illegal alien. They could move to Brighton Beach and she could get a job to support him with the rest of the people who overstayed their visas in the Russian section. He temporarily changed his tune to saying that she really only wants to marry anyone to get a green card, and would divorce him once she had one, and alternately, to he is so depressed and feels so dead inside that he does not love anyone, including me and RT. it was a very strange conversation, pure MLC rubbish, I see now. Except maybe for the depressed part. 

I guess it will be nice for your inlaws to see the new baby. How do you get along with them Raine?