MM, you are really complicating things. Your H is offering gifts. Accept them. Gift giving is a way we love one another. Your H is also telling you what his love language is. Read The 5 Love Languages. His offerings may also be his way of rebuilding your R. Let him give to you. In turn, you are giving to him by receiving. Keep this simple. You have a wonderful opportunity to care for your H's heart. Don't you want to do that?
