Just wanted to check in to see how things were going.
Regarding your trip to Cancun, this is my opinion, and take it for what its worth, just an opinion, but if i had known then what i know now during this BD, i would have given anything to take a trip anywhere just to get away and clear my head a bit.
I think you should go and relax, try to get your mind right for at least a few days. The guilt about being away without W and kids is something i struggle with (mostly being away from kids) but like i said, i would do it in a second.
Take care of yourself and start having some fun! Its the only way to stay sane during all this.
Me: 41 W: 36 M:9 yrs Together: 12 yrs Kids S7 S4 BD: 01/13 W filed 5/13 D final 8/13
