"she is an idiot on how she treats my W (her daughter). She has never been supportive of her."
Be careful how you use the word "never". Don't speak in absolutes and to be honest, you only know what happened after you got M'd.
"1/2 of my W's issues are the way my MIL treats her. Yes she states it all the time. My W will say the root of my anxiety is my mother. Then of course a week later blame me"
So what does that tell you? That you're an idiot too?
Your W has problems that are her own. Even if her mother was critical of her, she doesn't have to be that way. And maybe that was the way her mother was raised. Either way you are not her and you should know by DB that her issues are her own and that you really shouldn't judge others. But that's my 2 cents.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
