Thank you labug and Mr.Bond. I have come to the realization that I cannot stop this from happening. I will do everything possible to create an amicable D and I want my STBXW and children to be happy. I want a fair deal for all of us. I will not abandon my kids and will structure my life to be near them and available for them. I think and hope that my STBXW will take the high road also, though that remains to be seen. Yes Bond, you were right! I don't know whether the outcome would have been different if i was better at DBing and may never know, but I do know that the principles behind this approach are positive and for me to use now and in the future. I'am very sad that this is happening to my family.
Me:46 W:40 M:10 T:17 D:9 S:6 BD:12/11 ILYBINILWY:8/12 Served 2/13 I moved out 2/13 I moved back 6/13 W moved out 9/13
