Thanks for stopping by, sthelen. Even if what I'm positive is an EA is also a PA, I have no proof and he would lie and freak out if I asked him about it. There's no point in me trying to snoop (even though it's very tempting!) because he erases his text messages and I just feel bad afterwards.

"...but I've told myself if there is someone else it's just a symptom, not the problem. And if we can't figure out what the problem is we have no hope anyway. The truth will come out eventually."

I really like that POV. If things were great with us, he would talk to me instead of OW and I wouldn't have to worry about him lying and cheating, so even though I in no way condone it, I need to try and put my jealousy and anger on the back burner and work on things to better myself and be a W he would be a fool to leave. smile

Me: 27 H: 27
Together: 11, M: 3
S 2
BD: 06/24/13
Living together
H: EA - unknown current status
Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR)
Back and forth we go...