I'd agree with the other posters. If acts of service are his love language, like they are mine, offering to do something for you, like giving you his drink, may be his way of showing love.

If you keep saying no, he'll probably stop offering, just assuming that the answer will always be no.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13