Hoping for WAS to come home

[JaxFL14]

I def feel being too much of a Nice guy has hurt in some aspects of my marriage but I know who I am and I know that's not the cause of this. I know I have done things wrong but what can you do when your W says that she just knows who she is and wants to live alone? I know some of that is bull but I really so know my W and I can actually see her as that kind of women. I still struggle with how a W that has a 5, 4 and a now 9 MONTH old, would decide to do this? And knowing that she said it all came upon when she was about 2 months pregnant with the baby, just makes me think that hormones are playing a huge roll. Maybe that's just me reaching for some explanation. As I was reminded a few post ago, I am very early on in my marathon. I have a long way to go. And I take hope in that given more time she will realize she wants to try to make the marriage work. We did NOT have a bad marriage all. No fighting, had fun, but didn't work at keeping our love alive to the point she needed I guess. Never made time for just the two of us to stay connected the way I wish we would have. So I'm giving into the plan and letting time do its thing. Will continue with GAL, working in myself and the things I want to improve on for myself, having fun with my 3 young boys and staying healthy. Back in my 32" jeans. Lol. Praying for everyone out there going through this. Take care.