Ok well maybe she has a few symptoms of MLC, definitely has mood disorder, her friend died in May and things went further downhill since then too.

Bond I've started to stick up for myself more. Down vaca house I told her if she was going to act childish she could go home and I would stay with kids and have a great time...

One positive note when she acted like a baby down vaca house. She kept saying "you told me over and over we have to communicate" and then you take off to beach without including me. (not what I did but in her head it was, and yes lack of communication that day) so she is listening that our communication [censored].

I don't take her crap as much and I try to respond in low conflict ways. not to add fuel to the gas.