I'm going to say again that I don't think your W is going through an MLC. An irregardless if she is, MLC is not a disease that can be cured. Don't read things just off the internet about it. A wonderful resource is Women in Midlife Crisis by Jim Conway and his W. They pretty much were the first ones to write all about it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.