By the way, how are things going for you lately? I follow your sitch very closely, but i can't offer much in the way of DB'ing since i am pretty new to this, but i hope you are hanging in there as well.
Thanks! I'm doing really well, I'm very content, at this point I'm pretty sure my W will never change her mind and I'm OK with it. Unfortunately she was just diagnosed with breast cancer, I posted info in my thread on that. I think she'll be fine, but there are going to be some difficult months ahead for her and I'm not sure if she's going to postpone the D or proceed. I'm not pressuring her either way, just told her I will support her as a friend through the treatment process however she wants me to.