Hello! 20 year marriage teetering... (part IV)

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Do you honestly think OM is going to be there for her when things are at their darkest?

This was my thought exactly when I first heard from you about W's cancer. That's why I asked earlier if you knew she had already told OM or not. It might not make a difference as to how you feel about their R but I just hope OM is as good as you thought he was if they are going to go through this together. If I remember correctly OM was much younger than your W. I know age shouldn't matter when it comes to relationships but I can't help but to wonder if he's prepared to go through what your W is about to go through.