It's been over a year now I have finally cut the whipping chord and concentrating on me. I'm the only one I can fix.
T, this is good, and you are correct, but...
Originally Posted By: T1000
I am curious to what would happen in that situation if the WAS comes onto the LBS and initiates sex. After if sex takes place the LBS carries on as they were and doesn't get sucked in by it all or at least puts a front on, how would the WAS respond/handle that?
I know the WAS is trying to prove they can still get the LBS but is it not a trap to get them on board so they can pull back and deny further sex/R? If the LBS has sex but doesn't fall for the rest what could happen from there?
The above is all about what the WAS is thinking and what their actions mean. Go back to your first thought, concentrate on YOU. YOU are the only one you can fix. Your question needs to be this: "If I have sex with my WAW, what does that mean to ME? Is it GOOD for me or BAD for me?" Like MWD says in DR, if it messes with your head then don't do it. Don't try to figure out what it means to your W, that's mind-reading.