Need some input on how i handled a text conversation with my W after work yesterday. I received numerous texts from her throughout the day pestering me about when can i meet with the realtor to sign papers and when am i going to go sign the divorce papers. I was busy at work throughout all of this and at the time, i didn't know if i could make it to the realtor or not.
She just kept pushing and texting trying to get me to commit to something i wasn't sure of at the time.
I was getting pretty fed up with it all, but was being as polite as i could.
Finally after the whole day of texting, i told her that i could meet with her and the realtor after work to which she replied "the realtor double booked so can you meet with her on Wed or Thurs?"
I replied that i would get back to her. She then said "i am not trying to be pushy, but i need to know. And also, when are you going to go and sign the D papers?
That seemed to be the last straw for me and this was my final text to which came no reply.
"Please stop shoving this divorce down my throat. You are getting what you want. I am signing the papers after work."
I am probably deserving of a 2 x 4, but anyone got any ideas as to how i should have handled it better? I didn't respond to her texts right away, usually waiting an hour or two before responding. I just feel like i need to handle meself better in those situations.
Let me have it everyone!
Me: 41 W: 36 M:9 yrs Together: 12 yrs Kids S7 S4 BD: 01/13 W filed 5/13 D final 8/13
