I could have written word for word what you just composed above. Our H's are broken men determined to make their bad decisions work come he!! or high water. They don't care who they step on or hurt to make sure their agendas are met.
All we can do is focus on our healing. We rise above while they are reaching for something they will never obtain. That elusive brass ring so to speak.
Take care of yourself. WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"